The story of a divorced woman - The story of a divorced woman

 Before the divorce, the in-law's house was like a prison.

After the divorce, my house now feels like hell.

----------------- (divorced women in the text)  

The story of a divorced woman - The story of a divorced woman

The story of a divorced woman 

Before the divorce, the in-law's house was like a prison.

After the divorce, my house now feels like hell.

----------------- (divorced women in the text)  

Whatever the situation, divorce never brings happiness!!

At least no girl can be happy. 

The real life of a divorced woman

I don't know why I am writing. Maybe it's because I don't want anyone else to make the same mistake I did. Maybe it's because I don't want families to fall apart because of an explosion.

I am a nineteen year old female. We were married by my choice. The family also survived for years. We also have a son, he is one year old now.

My husband's character was all very good. Just a little stubborn. Of course not always, sometimes. People think that this situation is due to his stubbornness, but I know that our problem did not start from his side.

Every world has some problems. Sometimes we used to fight like that. But when there was a quarrel, I would pack the talpitalpa and walk towards my father's house. Sisters also came to father's house, and brothers stayed. I used to tell them everything. Then everyone would call him and listen to him. My younger sister used to insult!

I thought it was right. How brave, I think. Wants to drive me like myself. What kind of stubbornness was working in me. I could not imagine that I would be small to him, admit my mistakes to him, ask for forgiveness. On the contrary, I used to say in a loud voice, "Divorce!" Who lives with a man like you?”

No, I never wanted a divorce. It was word of mouth.

I felt it was right to ask for a divorce rather than being small in front of him.

I still remember one day. Both of us got very excited to argue about a small matter that day. My body is shaking with anger. I say what comes to my mouth. Tui-tokari, abuse, insults were not left out. At one point he broke the barrier and raised his hands on me!

He never laid hands on me before or after. But that one slap was enough.

I went to my father's house. And yes, like always, this time, instead of telling my own side, I just said his side. What is the use of blaming people! Based on what I told everyone, they judged. Everyone in the family said that there is no need to have a family with such a boy. Drop the case.

I filed a case on everyone's advice.

A case of violence against women was filed in her name. He was quickly caught by the police. The elders from his family came and requested me to take this case.

Inside I was also thinking, well, my husband is really cruel? Has he ever raised his hands on me? If I had not listened to him so much, would he have raised his hands on me that day?

My parents told me that if I go back after all this, he will think that I am helpless. Will get me more. He will turn his wand on me at will. If he has raised his hand once, he will do the same thing again and again. So there is no question of going back on your own.

But in my heart someone was shouting, he is not such a person. On the day he raised his hands on me, he asked me for forgiveness on his knees. Thinking about this, I withdrew the case. But I did not go back to him.

After a few days, there was a trial and arbitration from the two families. He proved guilty to everyone. Everyone explained various things to him, gave advice. Then I started a family again.

The next few months were going well, but suddenly we got into a fight about something. Anyway, I went to my father's house after packing my clothes. I heard that he is very sick! When I wanted to return home, my family said that it does not look good to return alone after such a fight. And my sisters were saying, nothing sick, all excuses!

We wanted some relatives from that side to come and admit his mistake and take me by the hand. But this time no one came.

A few days later he sent me a divorce letter. Everyone in our family was very upset after seeing the divorce letter. How dare you, put your daughter in so much trouble, send a divorce letter on her. Everyone's words also seemed to me, that's right, what great courage! Want to divorce me? All his mistakes began to float on his eyes. Parents reminded him, he is the boy who raised his hands on me.

Burning with the fire of revenge, I also decided, this time I will give a divorce. Who wants to make a family of such useless people? I tried to harass him even after going to the court. I demanded a sky-high amount by increasing my monthly expenses! I wanted her back against the wall. As if he came to me on his own and wants to start a family again. In fact, I never wanted a divorce But stubbornness was eating me up. It is impossible for me to ask him to withdraw the divorce in advance! I could not accept being small to him.

But surprisingly, he accepted all my sky-high demands. I got our son. Alimony, monthly expenses, all his property! In return, he only got a divorce.

We have been divorced for three and a half years today.

He is married again. It can be understood that there is happiness. In fact, girls might be happy with a carefree husband like him.

Now I feel sorry for myself. Words can sometimes be sharper than knives. He slapped me once, yes, but I would tear him apart with words. I did not torture physically, but I used to give emotional pain. These things were never told to my parents. How many people talk about their fault!

Sometimes I think, Ish, if only my family would have understood a little more and advised me to start a family. When I wanted to go back to him, I would have remembered the good aspects instead of telling him the bad! If I did not fall with my own stubbornness, I would have bowed to him a little! Then maybe today I would not have seen this day. Before the divorce, my father-in-law's house was like a prison.

After the divorce, my house now feels like hell.

Today, my siblings and friends all have their own families, but because of a small mistake, everything has ended, so I pray that this does not happen to anyone else.

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