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On the day of the wedding, my mother was very upset because she wanted to take off the sari jewelry and put on the burqa. What will people say, why gave so many jewelry-sari? 

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I'm a nachodaba, I have only one decision. Only girls from the groom will come to my room after seeing them I will remove the burqa. Ammu heard this and left the room.

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After that, I sat in the bau seze, a few men in the room, my cousins, tried to enter to take pictures, but failed. Even today they are chirping in anger for not being able to meet or take pictures.

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Soon after the arrival of people from the in-laws' house, the girls rushed to see the bride. Men wanted to come with me, I closed the door. On the wedding day, I should sit with my head down in shame. But I'm worried about whether any descendants are coming. No one is taking it kindly, if the curtain is broken, no one will come anywhere. 

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Before marriage, when I said to my Nan on mobile, "You are like my sister, help me to veil. No mahram should come to my room."

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He assured me that no one will see me except my 3 cousins ​​+ 15-20 cousins, cousins, in-laws, close relatives of the area.  

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Even though I was surprised, I convinced my mind that I have to take care of myself today. After that I talked to my better half, after accepting I will become your wife. After that, whoever sees me, you will be the god Already a bit of a master person, then it worked to frighten Daiyus. He supported the family despite going against it, and is still supporting it Alhamdulillah.

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After seeing all the girls, I quickly put on the burqa, hijab, and niqab. Huzur came to perform marriage, accompanied by at least 50 men. Desperately returning, some were saying, "Hey, it's covering everything, nothing to see". I felt a peace in my heart. 

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Then again that one war on the day of Boubhat. The mother-in-law forcibly brought her daughter's son-in-law among the girls saying that she would show them a new bride. My half had promised no men would come, so I didn't even wear a burqa. 

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Somehow I understood that the mahram entered the room and immediately wrapped the hijab around the neck of the sari and sat on the floor. Everyone may have been surprised by the news of the new wife. But after that, no one dared to enter the room.

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It was a huge struggle to hold the veil in a non-religious environment on my wedding day. No one could see me on the wedding day, no one could see me with their eyes. There are many sisters, who take a break on this day after veiling the whole year. And he made his biggest disaster. And the brothers willingly or forcefully make themselves Daiyus 

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After that, a different path began. The first day I put niqab in front of Vasur, he told me to my face that no burqa niqab is allowed here. I stood still without saying anything. 

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Got married in a joint family, started a fight with three vasurs over my veil. The nun's son also lives with us. 

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After marriage, I started the veil of my in-laws by wearing Sunnati clothes and wearing a big veil. All the work in the kitchen had to be done in Niqab even in the hot weather. No mahram can see me because I got married wearing a burqa. 

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This was one of the regrets of my cousin Vasura. They started secretly observing me. If I was asleep, he would try to open the window suddenly. 

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One day while busy cooking, my Nanad started saying with great regret that we didn't want such a veiled girl. My mother wants a Lakshmi bau to come who laughs like a doll and talks to everyone. I remained silent. One day my elder brother called me and said, "This curtain of yours is not to your liking!"

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Then I felt helpless inside. I told my brother, "Allah Ta'ala is displeased with his dislike."

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I did not come to this house to please my brother, tell him that I am his younger brother's family and haram for him."

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So that I don't lose this battle, my husband quickly arranged a separate house using the excuse of his job. He has tried to support me mentally in all this. Being a devout himself, he had to undergo great hardships in such an environment to keep his circumcised beard. 

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After that, in a separate house, when there were Mahram guests, I would go behind the curtain after making all the arrangements and my husband would continue to serve them. Nanad came to my house as a guest, now there was a problem with my veiling in front of his son.

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But I don't know why anyone's words did not fit! On the contrary, I taught him religious understanding and sent him home.  

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Then I decided whenever I would stay at the in-laws house, as long as. Until then, I'll be wearing a jilbab. That's exactly what I did. My husband said this for the first time why! Open it I said to him, I don't want to write the name of the hair in the account of my half-brother. He fell silent.

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Since then I started sleeping in jilbab at my in-laws house, started eating, started working. Alhamdulillah, I never thought it was difficult. Instead, I kept thinking, Oh God, you gave me a chance. If you really give me a chance. I wanted to come to the screen after reading from General. 

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Allah Ta'ala guides whom He wills, tests whom He wills, and bestows upon all patience the best reward. Alhamdulillah ala kulli hal. And this guidance is more difficult to maintain, if the amount of hair is here and there, it's all over.

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A girl gets less opportunity to veil if she wants. But if the brothers don't help, then it becomes extremely difficult. Sisters should take care of themselves even with their lives, there is no use in being blind to the husband's words. Both must go to hell. 

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I wrote this article as an inspiration, if anyone wants to find Riya, Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah. Allah Ta'ala is aware of the intentions and hearts of His servants.

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